How to Handle More Than You Can Handle: Navigating the Emotional Experience of Caring for and Raising Disabled Children with High-Support Needs

What Is GM1 Gangliosidosis?

GM1 Gangliosidosis is a rare, inherited genetic disorder that affects the brain and nervous system by preventing the body from breaking down certain fats, leading to progressive neurological damage.

If you’ve never heard of GM1 Gangliosidosis before, you’re not alone. Even many medical professionals may only encounter it once or twice in their careers. For families facing this diagnosis, it can feel like being dropped into a foreign country without a map. This guide is here to help you understand GM1 Gangliosidosis in clear, human terms without overwhelming medical jargon.

How to Handle more than you can handle 

Navigating the Emotional Experience of Caring for and Raising Disabled Children with High-Support Needs

At the 2025 Cure GM1 Community Conference, licensed marriage and family therapist Amanda Griffith-Atkins shared tips for navigating the complex emotions that parents of children with developmental disabilities and rare diseases like GM1 gangliosidosis often feel. Amanda’s insights are based on personal experience. At seven weeks old, her son Asher was diagnosed with a rare genetic condition called Prader-Willi Syndrome, which causes cognitive delays, behavioral issues and insatiable hunger. Below are a few of Amanda’s tips for managing the realities of raising a child with complex medical needs like GM1.

Receiving a diagnosis for a child with a disease like GM1 can be overwhelming and life-changing. Parents often experience grief, anxiety, and a sense of loss as their expectations for parenthood and their child’s future change. At the same time, those difficult feelings are often sublimated as the parent shifts their focus away from themselves and toward finding care and support for their child. To help, Amanda recommends the following. 

1) Know that complex emotions are normal

Parenting a child with a disability can bring many different emotions at the same time, including love, grief, sadness, frustration, guilt, anger, and fear. Families of children diagnosed with GM1 should know: these feelings are normal. You are not alone in feeling them, and you should not feel guilty for the ways in which you may be struggling emotionally.

According to Amanda, most parents feel completely unprepared when they first receive a diagnosis for their child. Her personal early parenting experience included long hospital stays, feeding tubes, constant medical appointments, and the difficult decision to leave her career to become a full-time caregiver. Parents may feel anxiety, isolation, and a loss of identity as their lives become centered around therapies, medical care, and monitoring their child’s health.

Watching other children reach typical milestones can deepen feelings of grief, especially when parents compare their child’s progress to that of relatives or friends. Many parents also experience grief over missed experiences, such as typical newborn bonding moments, normal childhood milestones, or future plans for their family. Additional challenges such as the strain on family planning, financial pressures, and the constant responsibility of caring for a medically fragile child can also cause highs and lows over time.

The difficult truth: grief is not a one-time event but something that returns repeatedly throughout a parent’s journey. Acceptance of this truth is key to managing it.

 

2) Find a community where honest conversation Is welcome

Connecting with other parents who understand the experience of parenting a child with a rare disease and/or developmental disabilities can provide comfort and support. Talking openly about the difficult parts of caregiving is one of the healthiest and most effective ways to reduce isolation and process challenging emotions.

 

Amanda noted specifically the damaging aspects of “toxic positivity.” As an example, many people try to comfort parents of disabled or otherly abled children with clichés like “God gives special kids to special people” or “kids are resilient.” While often well-intended, these comments can make parents feel that their real emotions—such as sadness, anger, or exhaustion—are not acceptable. It’s essential that parents find communities where they can feel safe expressing their true feelings without guilt. For Amanda specifically, being in a community where others truly understood her experience allowed her to openly discuss her struggles without judgment. These connections helped her feel less alone.

3) Maintain Your identity and find meaning

While caregiving will naturally become a major part of life after your child’s diagnosis, it’s important to remember: you are more than your caregiving role. While parenting a disabled child can be life-changing, it should not completely erase the parent’s own passions, beliefs, and personal identity. Finding meaning in the experience—while still acknowledging its difficulty—can help parents bridge the person they were before their child’s diagnosis with the person they are becoming. Parents deserve compassion, care, and understanding—not only for their child but also for themselves. 

 

Amanda emphasizes: love and grief can exist at the same time. Parents may deeply love their child while also feeling sadness, fear, or frustration about the challenges they face. Accepting these mixed emotions is part of processing the experience in a healthy way.

Learn more about Amanda and her services at amandagriffithatkins.com. And, check out her book, “How to Handle More Than You Can Handle, by clicking here.

Check out Amanda's full GM1 conference presentation below.

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